Ooh, I am so of two minds about this….one, that’s kind of draconian. Two, well…we KNOW obesity is unhealthy. These women *are* role models due to their positions on national TV, and have huge influence over their viewers. Keeping them at a healthy weight encourages viewers to maintain a healthy weight also, ESPECIALLY in light of the publicity over this issue.
Notice I didn’t say “model weight.” I said “healthy weight.” Models today are no healthier than the obese, if your body fat content is so low that you aren’t menstruating on a regular basis you are TOO THIN. Osteoporosis awaits you my friend, among other things.
Yes, I know I’m going to be accused of fat shaming or being racist or something. Frankly, I DON’T CARE. Obesity kills. Period. It limits your life. Period. You may not like facts but they are facts nonetheless.
Photo: Al-Ahram The head of the Egyptian Radio and Television Union (ERTU) Safaa Hegazy issued a decision on Tuesday preventing eight women anchors from appearing on screen, pending the implementation of a mandatory diet to achieve an “appropriate appearance.” According to Aswat Masreya, SHegazy also issued instructions to the women anchors in the TV sector…
It must be terrible to go through life being convinced that everyone is out to get you, that everyone is out to cheat you, that everyone is out to take advantage of you. It makes life Oh so much harder than it needs to be.
And it makes being honest and standing on principle with someone who thinks that way oh so very hard. Because they are always convinced of the above, even when you are not remotely trying to cheat or mislead or take advantage.
Thanks to Medicare stupidity, I need an MD or a DO to sign off on home health orders or on DME — home oxygen, a hospital bed, a wound vac, etc.
Anyone out there willing to sign off on these? I’ll happily pay you more than the Medicare rate along with a stipend. Given that most of my patient population is elderly, this is a really important thing.
You will have access to all my records via the electronic health system so you can sign on the electronic orders, and review my notes regarding patients.
You do have to have a US NPI though. :)
My neighbor, whom I’ve written about before Here. Came over today to buy some eggs. Three dozen eggs. She paid cash for them.
Now, I’m never really happy to see her, she wore out her welcome a while ago by constantly begging for food when she was here. That finally stopped when we started telling her “No, we need that for lunch at work.” Well mostly stopped.
Let me give you some more history and background.
She was discharged from her own medical practitioner last year because of drug shopping. She came to me to gripe about it, and I told her they have that right. She is the one who agreed to the terms when she began going there, she has no one to blame but herself. She then tried to say she has the right to get a second opinion and I agreed with her, but told her she is the one who signed the contract, she maybe should have read it a little more closely before deciding to get a second opinion AND filling a narcotic script from the other practitioner.
She has no job, no visible means of support, yet she gets tattoos regularly – she is covered from neck to feet. She says people just give them to her, my husband says she is trading sex for them (which might actually be true). She worked for many years as a stripper.
She has tried to tell me for a year that there is something wrong with her thyroid (there’s not, I saw the tests myself), that there’s something wrong with her sinuses (she saw a specialist who told her there’s nothing wrong), that there’s something wrong with her heart (there’s not, she had an angiogram but before that for months her excuse for lying in bed all day was chest pain), that she has anxiety and insomnia (but when asked how much she sleeps she says about 12-15 hours per day), that she can’t lose weight and feels tired all the time (yes you probably do, you sleep too much and you don’t exercise – and you’re nearly 50!). There’s a word for this: malingerer.
She says she can’t get a job (well probably not, your top lip is pierced twice and your bottom lip once, your head is partially shaved and neon red where the hair is actually growing, and your tatted from neck to toes). This is rural Arizona. That crap is seriously frowned on.
Today was the final straw. Nearly every time she comes over here she tries to use me as a free second opinion. Today she asked me about doxepin. And tried to tell me she’s going to try to get on Adderall. Which is legal meth. I lost it. I told her flat out that I’ve known her for a year and she does NOT have ADD. Or ADHD. She said that yes she does, she took a test and it said she probably does (one of these on line self tests mind you). Now seriously. Think about the previous two paragraphs, what I’ve said about her, and tell me if that looks like ADD/ADHD to you. She’s spent the last year bitching about her heart, her metabolism, her fatigue, her sinuses and NOT ONCE about anything remotely compatible with ADD. Other than the changing focus on different body parts when they are proven to be just fine, mind you.
I actually began yelling at her. “Bull $h!T!! Bull $h!T!! No you do not! You F*ing do not! I’ve known you for a year, you do NOT have ADD! You took a F*ing self test, they’re very easily manipulated to get the results you want! You just want F*ing legal meth!” I basically threw her out of the house. I actually told her right before I shut the door in her face that she just wants it to sell it. Which is probably a huge hospitality violation. But really. Does coming over and bouncing a bogus diagnosis of ADD/ADHD off your practitioner neighbor when you’re purportedly there to buy eggs really count as visiting?
I seriously think she wants the meth so she can sell it – there are several people here in the community who were getting it from the previous physician (who has since gone on to more lucrative pastures) and were selling it as well as using it. I know there’s a market. And I know who was selling it. And she can’t get a job, so the logical thing would be to fake an illness in order to get a controlled substance for sales purposes.
Man I get sick of the people who are bleeding the system dry. I work 6 days per week, and I have insurance that I can’t use because the deductible is $6500. My husband doesn’t even have insurance, we can’t afford it. I’ve been to the doctor maybe once for an actual physical since we’ve been together (nearly 20 years) and twice for employment related physicals, and maybe 3 times for urgent care type issues. He’s been to the doctor three times for a physical (all employment related) and once to the emergency room for an allergic reaction.
Our neighbor goes to the doctor, courtesy of the taxpayer, at least once a month! And gets very expensive medications prescribed, for which she pays nothing, courtesy of the taxpayer! And then proceeds to refuse to take them. And there’s no reason she can’t work other than the fact that she deliberately makes herself unemployable! These are the people who are breaking the system, not the hard working poor people who really do need a little help. And believe me, I live in a very low income community. I know which of my neighbors work and which are milking the system. For all the good it does.
I actually do not have words for the amount of anger I am feeling right now. And a little shame that I let her get to me.
This is long but well worth the read. I’ve been vaccinated against, and also had, most of these childhood diseases: chickenpox, measles, mumps, pertussis (this one really sucked), scarlet fever (no vaccine, just a strep infection). Which just goes to show that the vaccines are 1. not as effective as everyone assumes, 2. don’t last as long as everyone assumed (though they are coming to realize that now as more people like me get vaccine preventable diseases), 3. have unintended consequences.
Last year I wrote an article that pointed out that viruses are not per definition malignant. Many of the viral pathogens to which we are exposed should instead be seen as symbiotic organisms, that perform important functions for our health. The effects they cause include a long-lasting protection against cancer.
Unfortunately, it is easier for us to detect the acute effects of a viral infection than to detect the long-term role that viral infection plays in our health. As a result, modern medicine has led us to make a number of decisions that are ultimately detrimental to our health.
I recently encountered a study that provides a long list of cases where childhood natural infections with diseases we now vaccinate against was associated with a reduced risk of cancer. Even viruses like Influenza are mentioned in the literature as playing an important role in “teaching” the body how to cope with future…
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Huh. I just discovered today, via looking around at various videos, that for anyone who has turned off the advertisements for their own videos, they no longer load or play without interruptions. Like constant buffering interruptions. But the ones with the annoying advertisements play like butter – smooth.
Time to maybe start either a campaign to have everyone turn off the advertisements in their videos or boycott YouTube altogether.
I cannot tell you how very SICK of Dove commercials about strong women being proud of their looks and hair I am. Who gives a flying $%)%(?
Probably going to sound like a really stupid thing.
I called the police on the couple next door. I heard their little girl screaming a high piercing shriek over and over like she was witnessing a murder, then I heard the mom screaming, and heard her saying “Get off me! Stop it! I can’t believe you did that, stop it, get off!” Over and over. And more that I don’t remember.
I walked over to the house and banged on the door (well first I knocked but there was so much going on they didn’t hear me). When the dad opened the door I said “Getting a little loud in there. Getting a little physical. I advise you to knock it off.” He said OK and basically slammed the door in my face.
Turns out a cousin died of a drug overdose and everyone was pretty over wrought.
I don’t feel good about calling the police, but I also don’t feel good about leaving a woman and two small children in possible danger if they were being physically threatened or abused in any way.
It was a tough call.
So I’ve been working 6 days a week for several months now, since the beginning of February. I have to say I’m getting more than a little burned out. I work 3 days a week for another provider and 3 days a week building my own business.
This has been QUITE the learning curve. I have a subscriber who is a physician in Canada who I envy because he has no concept of the hoops that must be jumped in order to become credentialed AND contracted with the insurance companies here in the US! Suffice it to say they seem to, from my point of view, have a slew of employees that get paid a very good wage to do a whole bunch of nothing much. And blow lots of sunshine. And pass the ball. But not actually come through and do what they say they will. Not all, mind you. Some have been exceptional. And some employees have been quite exceptional. But overall….yeah. Just wow.
So the reason this is about wyrd is because of two (well three really) things that intersected in the strangest and most wonderful way today.
- The credentialing/contract thing. And the continuing non responses. I have a friend who is helping me out of the goodness of her heart. She has been involved in contracting/credentialing for 40 years. She knows her stuff and she believes in my business and what I want to do for our community.
- My son. He works for a business in our closest big city, where he started out as a data entry person and is now a vice president. Hard work, dedication, and literacy *are* rewarded on occasion. He has contacts in high places thanks to his position.
- I’m a devotional polytheist. And I believe in making offerings to my ancestors, the land spirits, and the Gods because I’m grateful. That’s all. To me the whole Germanic gifting cycle is us being grateful for what we have, not in order to get anything. It’s not a transactional relationship. And if you think it is, then you don’t understand the gifting cycle. Now, when you need something that’s different, and a different thing, and not directly related to the gifting cycle. At least not to me. No tit for tat in my devotions.
So how these all intersect is that my friend and I had a very frustrating and relatively unfruitful day following up on these contacts I signed months ago with no provider privileges in sight. Which means no ability to bill and get paid for the work I’ve already done, even as an out of network provider. Which I was promised I would be able to do when the contracts were finalized.
And a phone call from my son. In which he had some questions about my university, and about my degree program, and what was involved (for reasons which shall go unsaid). And his frustrations. And I shared my frustrations with him, and named names about insurance companies we dealt with today. I did NOT realize when I was dumping on him that he actually is on a first name basis with some of the very top power players with the same insurance companies. But I found that out in short order!
Long story short. Son and friend were put into contact. Son and friend are pulling strings on a level I would quite simply be unable to accomplish on my own. Things are going to happen now that might have taken a year or more without them both working on this.
And how does that relate to the gifting cycle, or to wyrd? Well, if you’re a heathen you already know.
Quite simply, I firmly believe that my gifting prompted a return – not as a transactional relationship, but as an outpouring of blessing for my devotion and offerings. I also believe my investment in my children, my insistence on personal responsibility and work ethic – even when they were VERY sadly off track, has paid off. Not that I expected that, I’m just glad they are happy and feel successful in whatever they do. But the fact that others recognize them for their dedication and responsibility is an amazingly reassuring thing.
And my wyrd, the web that I have woven using the ancestral heritage, and adding my own actions, has made my luck good. I’m able to call on the help of friends, the help of family, and the help of people I don’t even know to aid myself to serve my community (and make a *small* living doing it).
This is what it’s all about. My gratefulness meter is just about pegged out. And my pride in my children is too.